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Can you come to orgasm with the vibrator?

July 07, 2018 0 Comments

Can you come to orgasm with the vibrator?

What it was like to sleep with a vibrator

Nea wants to bring herself to orgasm and buys herself an electronic helper. In order to come, she has about 50 attempts.

Sometimes I feel annoyed about being a woman. Not because I feel disadvantaged by society, but by nature. Few men will have ever wondered how they can come to orgasm. I, on the other hand, have been working intensively for weeks on whether and how I can have a vaginal orgasm * .
* Vaginal orgasm, the: orgasm that is achieved by penetration alone - without stimulating the clitoris.

According to sexual researcher Edward Laumann, only about four percent of women have ever had the benefit of a purely vaginal orgasm. I'm not one of them - most of my friends are not. And I find that I am still too young to resign myself to having only an orgasm if I rub the pearl well.

I do not want to believe Mr. Laumann and therefore prefer to stick to the many orgasm instructions on the Internet. Most of them identify the G-spot as the key to success, so I order a much too expensive G-spot vibrator and hope it will solve my problem.

While I wait for the package, I read for my first attempt to vaginal orgasm. I am learning:
  • My vagina is not about friction, but about vibration, pressure and stretching.
  • The G point is a zone on my front vaginal inner wall. He is similar to my taste buds. When I find it, it probably feels like I have to pee first. That's because the nerve endings there have yet to be trained and quasi reprogrammed.
  • The pleasurable experience of vaginal stimulation must therefore be learned. New connections have to be created in the mind.
  • This takes about 2000 to 10,000 repetitions and, assuming up to 400 touches per test, about 50 attempts .

As Gigi - yes, my vibrator is called Gigi and I have decided, he is a she - finally arrives, we dare in the evening directly the first test run.

Of course it did not work.

The first problem is that Gigi is so strangely shaped, and I'm so undecided that the thing does not want to fit in the beginning. In the meantime, I have done everything according to instructions: first as always masturbating and then distributed a lot of lube and made sexy thoughts.

At some point I get Gigi into me and can finally test how it feels like that. I stir around a bit and realize that it is not unpleasant - but unfortunately not cool either.

I find my G-spot. But the euphoria about the discovery does not last long, because even after 15 minutes pressing, vibrating, massaging and stretching no longer happens as a urge to urinate. I pull Gigi out again and go to the bathroom.

I'm sitting there now and I'm disappointed. It could have been a bit exciting at least.

But I do not give up. I finally have 49 attempts left.

Nea tells every week on bento about the big and small escapades of her sex life. And their relationship to themselves - that changes a little bit after each story.

For information: Originally it said in the text that 1000 to 2000 repetitions are necessary to learn vaginal pleasure sensation. However, it takes 2000 to 10,000 repetitions. We corrected that.

For info # 2: "Up to 400 repetitions" means that per individual attempt also fewer repetitions can take place. This means that fewer or more attempts can lead to orgasm - it does not necessarily have to be 50. If you divide 10,000 by 400, you will only get 25 attempts, but not every attempt will necessarily involve 400 touches.




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