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How to use a dildo properly?

July 04, 2018 0 Comments

What exactly is a dildo

Dildos are probably the oldest sex toy in the world. Already the ancient Egyptians prepared their women with wooden or stone molded penis reproductions supreme joy. Maybe dildos are even older - archaeologists have found a 28,000-year-old stone dildo. Whether the already served the female pleasure is still unclear.

Today, dildos are distributed worldwide and available in a variety of materials, shapes and sizes, so there is just the right piece for every purpose. Dildos are available in every price range, and their use is as simple as it is effective to achieve the highest ecstasy. No wonder that in Germany so-called "dildo parties" are becoming increasingly popular. Dildos can also be ordered discreetly online at any time, for example at Amorelie.
One reason for the popularity of dildos is certainly that in use they are in principle very easy to handle. But there are some points that should be considered when using the dildo, so that nothing stands in the way of the perfect pleasure.

How is a dildo used correctly?

The most important element when using a dildo is creativity, then there are no limits to the fun. In principle, there is no right or wrong in the use of dildos, but is anything that gives pleasure.
On the one hand dildos, especially of women, can be used excellently to spoil themselves in lonely hours. After all, you can reach the female G-spot with a suitably shaped toy much easier than with your bare hands, and the G-spot in turn gives women particularly intense orgasms.

How you want to proceed exactly, there is no single recipe - is allowed what pleases. With some tricks, however, the fun can be significantly increased. Especially at the beginning of the penetration into the vagina sufficient moisture is needed - that is, either stimulated by hand other erogenous zones, such as the breasts and especially the nipples, or the clitoris, until your own body has produced enough moisture or you can apply a little lubricant to the tip of the dildo before slowly penetrating it for the first time. Whether you want to move it slowly back and forth or to invade each time anew, corresponds to the personal preference. In any case, it is recommended to increase the desire to continue to stimulate the clitoris with one hand at the same time,

If you find it difficult to relax and feel the intrusion of the dildo unpleasant, you can do the first experiments in a hot bubble bath. The vast majority of dildos are made of waterproof silicone and can be used at any time in the bathtub.

After a certain arousal, the G point becomes active as an erogenous zone. Most dildos are shaped to perfectly stimulate this highly sensitive point on the inner wall of the vagina - and suddenly intense waves of pleasure flow through the entire body. So that the end does not come too fast, you can pull out the dildo at any time, take a short break, and then start the game over again, as long as you feel like it. When the redeeming orgasm comes, it will be all the more intense and longer. Meanwhile, the dildo should still remain quiet in the vagina, because with every wave of pleasure, when the muscles contract rhythmically, he gives once again an extra kick.

But even as a couple can give a dildo sex life still a decent piece of pep.

Many couples use dildos especially for their foreplay. Thus, the lust curve of the woman before the decisive act can be fueled once and an approximately simultaneous climax for both becomes more likely.

However, the use of a dildo does not have to be limited to foreplay, there are countless other uses for the little friends.
For example, many men have to beg their partners for a blow job. But if the partner has some of it, too, by putting her in ecstasy with the dildo at the same time, one might need a little less persuasion. For this, the 69-position is recommended, so that the man on the one hand with the dildo well reached the G-spot of the woman, if necessary, but even the clitoris with the fingers or tongue tip can spoil.
Another use is the case that the man reaches his peak a little earlier than expected - if the partner has not yet had an orgasm, why not give her one with the dildo?

Even with anal intercourse, a dildo can help: Often, the anal pleasure is difficult if the partner is not sufficiently relaxed. Remedy one by stimulating the same time with the dildo and so simultaneously several erogenous zones are excited simultaneously - a hot climax is then guaranteed.
Meanwhile, there are dildos in many different designs. Whether one decides on a classic model in the penis look or for a rather simple model, is secondary. Some models even look so innocuous that you can easily take them with you in your hand luggage when you travel or even leave it on the bedside table in your hotel.

However, you should pay attention to the weight of dildos: The lighter the toy, the less tired it becomes when using the arms and hands and the easier it slides in and out. So if you are planning hours of fun, you should buy a fairly lightweight toy.

Important for any use of dildos is the use of sufficient lubricant. Depending on the material, there are recommended by the manufacturers particularly recommended means that do not attack the respective surface. Never should a dry dildo be inserted into a vagina that is not sufficiently moist, then this can lead to skin irritation or abrasions. How much lubricant is needed is dependent on the individual physique and can not be said overall - you just have to find out for yourself. However, the maxim is to use too much lubricant rather than too little.

Overall, one should make sure when buying a dildo that it is made of high quality materials, such as silicone or glass, and contains no plasticizers. An anatomical shape enhances the fun, nubs or grooves on the surface are also popular. For beginners, smaller models are recommended, experienced users can ever reach for the larger toys. That a dildo meets all safety regulations, you can see EU-wide at the CE mark.

In addition, hygiene, as with all toys, crucial: The dildo should be cleaned after each use with water and a suitable Toy Cleaner to avoid infection. Once a dildo has been used anal, it must no longer be introduced vaginally or orally, otherwise intestinal bacteria may end up in places where you really do not want them.

How to use a strap-on dildo?


A strap-on dildo is strapped with various straps. This variant is particularly popular with women who want to make their partner happy, but just as well can be a man anal pleasure prepared.
In the two-women version, a strap-on is recommended that is equipped with vibrating egg, so that both sides are stimulated in addition to the hard shocks with gentle vibrations.

Meanwhile, there are also strap-ons without the classic straps, for example the ShareVibe . These dildos are anatomically shaped to hold on their own and leave both hands free, so that even more erogenous zones can be massaged. These toys are also suitable for heterosexual couples and are perfect if you want to reach a climax together.

The vibrating egg is removable here, so that the ShareVibe can also be used like a normal strap-on. Of course, he does not always have to be used as a strap-on, you can just as easily take him in hand and spoil the partner or the partner.

In principle, all positions are possible with a strap-on. It gets particularly hot in riding games or in doggy style, but there are no limits to creativity here.
In addition, the strap-on of heterosexual couples allows the man to be the passive partner once - an extremely erotic, exciting experience, as well as for the woman to play the active part. Suddenly, sex gets a whole new dynamic for both.

A strap-on can also serve valuable services in games for three with two women, for many women it is a fantastic feeling to be penetrated from the front and from behind at the same time. With a little imagination can be found in various constellations countless uses for a strap-on.

What do you have to pay attention to anal dildos?

Most conventional dildos can also be used anal as you like, like the Lelo Ella . As with all games with the back door, the use of anal dildos must initially be very cautious. The use of sufficient lubricant goes without saying. If pain or unpleasant sensations, you should try it slower or with a smaller diameter.
It is important that an anal dildo should not be introduced too deeply. Once the sphincter has closed behind the toy, it may become a problem to pull the toy out again. Therefore, it is recommended to use dildos with a ring to retract or a widening that prevents too much slipping in from the start.

Otherwise, the maxim is that with increasing excitement, the back door is always relaxed and can also be wilder stimulated. In particular, the male is from a certain excitement of the P-point important and can give him with stimulation with an anal dildo a very hot orgasm, with a little luck even multiple orgasms.

But even for women, anal dildos certainly have their appeal: The female G-spot can be indirectly stimulated by the vaginal wall. Since a male penis usually does not reach the G-spot during sex, it can be stimulated by an anal dildo during sexual intercourse, for example, to reach a climax in unprecedented dimensions.

What is so special about glass dildos?

A relatively new material for dildos is glass. This material has several advantages: The surface is extremely smooth and glides optimally even without much lubricant. In addition, glass dildos are very easy to clean - and the cold glass, especially at the first penetration once again for extra tingling. To increase this tingling, the good piece can be cooled down a little longer before use in the refrigerator.

A prime example of a glass dildo in a class of its own is "The Golden Love" , whose design perfectly suits the female G-spot and stimulates the clitoris every time it penetrates.

One thing you have to pay attention to at glass dildos: they should not fall down, otherwise they could break. Once a glass dildo has been damaged on the surface, it must not be used any more, because glass can cause sharp edges in such places at any time - who would like to cut their wounds during lovemaking? Generally, however, glass dildos are extremely durable and long lasting. Even in the bathtub you can use a glass dildo at any time, but in warm water it will lose its tingling coolness relatively quickly.

Dildos with suction cup - what's that for?

Especially trendy are currently dildos with suction cup. The idea is relatively new, but ingenious: These playful toys suck on any smooth surface, such as the impressive "The Boss Stub" by Fun Factory . This good piece provides through the anatomically shaped glans and many small veins for additional stimulation and is inferior to a real penis in any way.

To give just one example, he keeps his suction cup excellent on tiles or marble floors, but also shower walls are his territory. So various positions are possible to have fun alone. Practically, of course, is that when attached to the ground, so to speak the riding position, the woman's mouth is then in the perfect height for a blow job. What more do you want?

You should be careful, if you attach a dildo with Saufnapf on furniture. If the movements are too passionate, there may be a risk of falling or tipping over.
The use of a suction cup dildo in a squatting position is also an excellent training for the pelvic floor. Regular use promotes as well as the female health.

 






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